One of the first activities you and your fiancé will do together as an about-to-be-married couple is to pick items out for your registry. It’s a great practice because it lessens the amount of unwanted gifts that you two will be receiving. The bridal registry will serve as a list of the things you need to start your lives together as a unit, be it something as mundane as towels or faucets.

Picking out stuff for your bridal registry should be started soon, like a month after getting engaged. And don’t register for just one. Signing up for multiple bridal registries are the trend among couples, probably because it allows them to choose exactly what they want as well as giving their guests options with regards to items and price ranges. It’s nice that everything from Target to Macy’s to Neiman Marcus has bridal registries, so you really have a choice.

Before signing up for any bridal registry, you and your fiancé need to do an inventory of what you need or what you would like to upgrade amongst your stuff. Basic items to register for include dinnerware, flatware, and linens. Be sure to visit stores in person so you can check out the merchandise yourself. You always have to check if they are value for your money. You can take note of which items you like and then register online later.

There’s also a trend for less traditional bridal registries, ones that provide other gift options. There are online bridal registries that allow guests to donate to your honeymoon fund, or donate to a charity in your name. That’s certainly a very nice twist to the usual bridal registries.

The thing to remember is to not stress yourself out picking out items here and there. This is a fun activity and always remember that your loved ones are only too happy to give you the things you pick.